A great photo is more than just perfect lighting and good composition. It’s about capturing your subject’s truest essence—that confident, authentic, magnetic self that already exists inside them. My job as a photographer is to bring that forward. Over the years, I’ve built a toolkit of both physical and psychological tools that help guide clients into that space where they feel fully alive and expressed.
Pre-Production: Where Confidence Begins
Confidence starts before the camera ever clicks. That’s why I treat my Elevated Realism™ photoshoots with the same reverence and preparation I would give to an editorial or advertising shoot.
Together with my client, we identify their story, their vibe, and the visual narrative we want to tell. This means:
- Choosing the right wardrobe
- Selecting emotionally resonant locations
- Identifying props that tell their story
- Planning for the moments we want to create
The Confidence-Carrying Playlist
Music is my magic wand. It shifts energy instantly. I always bring my own playlist curated to uplift, move, and loosen up even the most hesitant clients.
But more importantly, I ask every client: “What music makes you come alive? What gets you dancing?”
I wear a custom harness I originally designed for Burning Man, equipped with dual UE Boom speakers and pouches for batteries and memory cards. It’s functional, but more than that, it’s part of creating a vibe.
Client Rituals: What to Bring Beyond Clothes
Aside from their wardrobe and props, I encourage my clients to bring:
- A full night’s sleep
- Hydrated bodies
- A collaborative mindset
Energy is everything on set. I want clients who are ready to show up fully, open to play, and curious about what they might discover.
Real-Time Confidence Tools
When a client tightens up or starts to get in their head, I have a few tricks:
- Fluttering the lips – It relaxes the jaw and usually makes us laugh
- Full-body shakes – Releases tension quickly and reconnects us to presence
- Dancing or walking – Motion frees up emotion. It shifts the nervous system from freeze to flow
- Conversation and questions – I keep talking with them, asking meaningful questions to keep their mind present and engaged
Creating the Atmosphere
There is no one-size-fits-all set or vibe. Each location brings its own flavor. Sometimes it’s a minimal, light-flooded loft; sometimes it’s a maximalist paradise full of eclectic pattern and chaos.
What’s consistent is the atmosphere I bring:
- Music
- Encouragement
- Play
- Positive reinforcement
When I see a moment that lights up on camera, I vocalize it immediately: “Yes! That’s it! Hold that! More of that!” Clients bloom in response to acknowledgment.
Less Gear, More Presence
I keep my technical gear minimal. Natural light is my favorite medium, and I aim to find locations where it thrives. I do bring seamless backdrops and a studio strobe if we’re going for a particular look, but I never let gear slow us down. My priority is flow and presence.
The Power of Positive Reinforcement
Verbal cues are everything. Clients may walk in unsure, but when they start to hear how good they look—in real time—their confidence skyrockets.
Bonus Tool: The Second Phone
Simple but effective: I always bring a second phone to play music. That way, I can use my main phone for video content, notes, or showing clients inspiration without interrupting the vibe.
Closing Thoughts
Confidence is not something I force out of people. It’s something I create the environment for. With music, movement, the right setting, and psychological presence, confidence becomes inevitable.
That’s what I aim to deliver in every Elevated Realism™ shoot.
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A great photo is more than just perfect lighting and good composition. It’s about capturing your subject’s truest essence—that confident, authentic, magnetic self that already exists inside them. My job as a photographer is to bring that forward. Over the years, I’ve built a toolkit of both physical and psychological tools that help guide clients into that space where they feel fully alive and expressed.
Pre-Production: Where Confidence Begins
Confidence starts before the camera ever clicks. That’s why I treat my Elevated Realism™ photoshoots with the same reverence and preparation I would give to an editorial or advertising shoot.
Together with my client, we identify their story, their vibe, and the visual narrative we want to tell. This means:
- Choosing the right wardrobe
- Selecting emotionally resonant locations
- Identifying props that tell their story
- Planning for the moments we want to create
The Confidence-Carrying Playlist
Music is my magic wand. It shifts energy instantly. I always bring my own playlist curated to uplift, move, and loosen up even the most hesitant clients.
But more importantly, I ask every client: “What music makes you come alive? What gets you dancing?”
I wear a custom harness I originally designed for Burning Man, equipped with dual UE Boom speakers and pouches for batteries and memory cards. It’s functional, but more than that, it’s part of creating a vibe.
Client Rituals: What to Bring Beyond Clothes
Aside from their wardrobe and props, I encourage my clients to bring:
- A full night’s sleep
- Hydrated bodies
- A collaborative mindset
Energy is everything on set. I want clients who are ready to show up fully, open to play, and curious about what they might discover.
Real-Time Confidence Tools
When a client tightens up or starts to get in their head, I have a few tricks:
- Fluttering the lips – It relaxes the jaw and usually makes us laugh
- Full-body shakes – Releases tension quickly and reconnects us to presence
- Dancing or walking – Motion frees up emotion. It shifts the nervous system from freeze to flow
- Conversation and questions – I keep talking with them, asking meaningful questions to keep their mind present and engaged
Creating the Atmosphere
There is no one-size-fits-all set or vibe. Each location brings its own flavor. Sometimes it’s a minimal, light-flooded loft; sometimes it’s a maximalist paradise full of eclectic pattern and chaos.
What’s consistent is the atmosphere I bring:
- Music
- Encouragement
- Play
- Positive reinforcement
When I see a moment that lights up on camera, I vocalize it immediately: “Yes! That’s it! Hold that! More of that!” Clients bloom in response to acknowledgment.
Less Gear, More Presence
I keep my technical gear minimal. Natural light is my favorite medium, and I aim to find locations where it thrives. I do bring seamless backdrops and a studio strobe if we’re going for a particular look, but I never let gear slow us down. My priority is flow and presence.
The Power of Positive Reinforcement
Verbal cues are everything. Clients may walk in unsure, but when they start to hear how good they look—in real time—their confidence skyrockets.
Bonus Tool: The Second Phone
Simple but effective: I always bring a second phone to play music. That way, I can use my main phone for video content, notes, or showing clients inspiration without interrupting the vibe.
Closing Thoughts
Confidence is not something I force out of people. It’s something I create the environment for. With music, movement, the right setting, and psychological presence, confidence becomes inevitable.
That’s what I aim to deliver in every Elevated Realism™ shoot.
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A great photo is more than just perfect lighting and good composition. It’s about capturing your subject’s truest essence—that confident, authentic, magnetic self that already exists inside them. My job as a photographer is to bring that forward. Over the years, I’ve built a toolkit of both physical and psychological tools that help guide clients into that space where they feel fully alive and expressed.
Pre-Production: Where Confidence Begins
Confidence starts before the camera ever clicks. That’s why I treat my Elevated Realism™ photoshoots with the same reverence and preparation I would give to an editorial or advertising shoot.
Together with my client, we identify their story, their vibe, and the visual narrative we want to tell. This means:
- Choosing the right wardrobe
- Selecting emotionally resonant locations
- Identifying props that tell their story
- Planning for the moments we want to create
The Confidence-Carrying Playlist
Music is my magic wand. It shifts energy instantly. I always bring my own playlist curated to uplift, move, and loosen up even the most hesitant clients.
But more importantly, I ask every client: “What music makes you come alive? What gets you dancing?”
I wear a custom harness I originally designed for Burning Man, equipped with dual UE Boom speakers and pouches for batteries and memory cards. It’s functional, but more than that, it’s part of creating a vibe.
Client Rituals: What to Bring Beyond Clothes
Aside from their wardrobe and props, I encourage my clients to bring:
- A full night’s sleep
- Hydrated bodies
- A collaborative mindset
Energy is everything on set. I want clients who are ready to show up fully, open to play, and curious about what they might discover.
Real-Time Confidence Tools
When a client tightens up or starts to get in their head, I have a few tricks:
- Fluttering the lips – It relaxes the jaw and usually makes us laugh
- Full-body shakes – Releases tension quickly and reconnects us to presence
- Dancing or walking – Motion frees up emotion. It shifts the nervous system from freeze to flow
- Conversation and questions – I keep talking with them, asking meaningful questions to keep their mind present and engaged
Creating the Atmosphere
There is no one-size-fits-all set or vibe. Each location brings its own flavor. Sometimes it’s a minimal, light-flooded loft; sometimes it’s a maximalist paradise full of eclectic pattern and chaos.
What’s consistent is the atmosphere I bring:
- Music
- Encouragement
- Play
- Positive reinforcement
When I see a moment that lights up on camera, I vocalize it immediately: “Yes! That’s it! Hold that! More of that!” Clients bloom in response to acknowledgment.
Less Gear, More Presence
I keep my technical gear minimal. Natural light is my favorite medium, and I aim to find locations where it thrives. I do bring seamless backdrops and a studio strobe if we’re going for a particular look, but I never let gear slow us down. My priority is flow and presence.
The Power of Positive Reinforcement
Verbal cues are everything. Clients may walk in unsure, but when they start to hear how good they look—in real time—their confidence skyrockets.
Bonus Tool: The Second Phone
Simple but effective: I always bring a second phone to play music. That way, I can use my main phone for video content, notes, or showing clients inspiration without interrupting the vibe.
Closing Thoughts
Confidence is not something I force out of people. It’s something I create the environment for. With music, movement, the right setting, and psychological presence, confidence becomes inevitable.
That’s what I aim to deliver in every Elevated Realism™ shoot.
9/22/25
Tools I Use to Direct Confidence in My Clients
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I was born in a low middle class conservative religious family in the suburbs of Seattle. Art was and always has been my passion, and more than that a way of life. Starting as a graphic designer, I taught myself photography, built a commercial/editorial business shooting for the worlds biggest brands like Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and more. I've also had the opportunity to photograph the world's biggest celebrities like Justin Bieber, Usher, Jessica Alba and more. I've curated a lifestyle around creativity and have learned a lot along the way which I get to share here.
I was born in a low middle class conservative religious family in the suburbs of Seattle. Art was and always has been my passion, and more than that a way of life. Starting as a graphic designer, I taught myself photography, built a commercial/editorial business shooting for the worlds biggest brands like Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and more. I've also had the opportunity to photograph the world's biggest celebrities like Justin Bieber, Usher, Jessica Alba and more. I've curated a lifestyle around creativity and have learned a lot along the way which I get to share here.
