Your relationships and your network are huge key components of success.
Today I’m talking about a question that was recently asked by previous podcast guest Andy Murphy, who teaches neurlinguistic programming for peak performance, in my Nion Life community on Facebook. How do you make friends when you arrive in a new place?
Creating a community in a new city and meeting people can be a challenge, but I’ve got seven tips to help you get started. Having a global network can be really awesome, so it’s all about getting out of your comfort zone and becoming the person you want to meet.
Building relationships takes time and effort and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.
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Some things we learn in this podcast:
- The importance of creating a network [1:50]
- Create a global network [3:05]
- Start with friends of friends [3:40]
- Drop a post on Facebook [4:30]
- Find meet ups or groups of common interest [4:45]
- Force yourself out of your comfort zone [5:05]
- Be the person that you want to meet [6:45]
- Ask to connect [7:30]
- Stay in touch [7:50]
Links mentioned:
- Listen to my episode with Andy Murphy
- Join the Nion Life community on Facebook
- Check out artist Jun-Pierre Shiozowa
- Listen to my episode with Vanessa Van Edwards
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Your relationships and your network are huge key components of success.
Today I’m talking about a question that was recently asked by previous podcast guest Andy Murphy, who teaches neurlinguistic programming for peak performance, in my Nion Life community on Facebook. How do you make friends when you arrive in a new place?
Creating a community in a new city and meeting people can be a challenge, but I’ve got seven tips to help you get started. Having a global network can be really awesome, so it’s all about getting out of your comfort zone and becoming the person you want to meet.
Building relationships takes time and effort and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.
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Some things we learn in this podcast:
- The importance of creating a network [1:50]
- Create a global network [3:05]
- Start with friends of friends [3:40]
- Drop a post on Facebook [4:30]
- Find meet ups or groups of common interest [4:45]
- Force yourself out of your comfort zone [5:05]
- Be the person that you want to meet [6:45]
- Ask to connect [7:30]
- Stay in touch [7:50]
Links mentioned:
- Listen to my episode with Andy Murphy
- Join the Nion Life community on Facebook
- Check out artist Jun-Pierre Shiozowa
- Listen to my episode with Vanessa Van Edwards
4/18/17
119: Nick Onken – 7 Tips on Making Friends in New Cities
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Your relationships and your network are huge key components of success.
Today I’m talking about a question that was recently asked by previous podcast guest Andy Murphy, who teaches neurlinguistic programming for peak performance, in my Nion Life community on Facebook. How do you make friends when you arrive in a new place?
Creating a community in a new city and meeting people can be a challenge, but I’ve got seven tips to help you get started. Having a global network can be really awesome, so it’s all about getting out of your comfort zone and becoming the person you want to meet.
Building relationships takes time and effort and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.
[smart_track_player url=”https://soundcloud.com/nickonken/making-new-friends” title=”7 Tips on Making Friends in New Cities” image=”https://nionlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/119_NewFriends_COVER.jpg” color=”#de4b9b” ]
Some things we learn in this podcast:
- The importance of creating a network [1:50]
- Create a global network [3:05]
- Start with friends of friends [3:40]
- Drop a post on Facebook [4:30]
- Find meet ups or groups of common interest [4:45]
- Force yourself out of your comfort zone [5:05]
- Be the person that you want to meet [6:45]
- Ask to connect [7:30]
- Stay in touch [7:50]
Links mentioned:
- Listen to my episode with Andy Murphy
- Join the Nion Life community on Facebook
- Check out artist Jun-Pierre Shiozowa
- Listen to my episode with Vanessa Van Edwards
4/18/17
119: Nick Onken – 7 Tips on Making Friends in New Cities
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I was born in a low middle class conservative religious family in the suburbs of Seattle. Art was and always has been my passion, and more than that a way of life. Starting as a graphic designer, I taught myself photography, built a commercial/editorial business shooting for the worlds biggest brands like Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and more. I've also had the opportunity to photograph the world's biggest celebrities like Justin Bieber, Usher, Jessica Alba and more. I've curated a lifestyle around creativity and have learned a lot along the way which I get to share here.
I was born in a low middle class conservative religious family in the suburbs of Seattle. Art was and always has been my passion, and more than that a way of life. Starting as a graphic designer, I taught myself photography, built a commercial/editorial business shooting for the worlds biggest brands like Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and more. I've also had the opportunity to photograph the world's biggest celebrities like Justin Bieber, Usher, Jessica Alba and more. I've curated a lifestyle around creativity and have learned a lot along the way which I get to share here.
