Fashion is an industry, but style is for everybody.
We have all had trouble accepting ourselves the way we are. Sometimes, people use clothes and fashion as a way to cover up who they are, or to beat people to the punch of putting them in a box.
But fashion can also be impressive, thought provoking, and a way to get what you want. That’s what I’m talking to Stacy London about today.
If you haven’t heard of Stacy, you are missing out. She is a veteran TV host, having been on What Not to Wear for ten years, and just recently launching her new show Love, Lust, or Run. But she’s also a stylist, an author, and a woman with an infection sense of energy and authenticity.
I can’t wait for you to hear her story of battling multiple diseases, hunting for her perfect job, and how she’s changing the world, one outfit at a time.
For all the negative messages that loop in all of our heads about what we’re not, I try to use style to dislodge that kind of negativity.
[smart_track_player url=”https://soundcloud.com/nickonken/54-stacy-london-achieving-self-acceptance-and-developing-your-sense-of-style” title=”How to Turn Personal Struggles Into a Career” artist=”Stacy London” image=”https://nionlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/54_StacyLondon_NIONradio_02.jpg” color=”#de4b9b” ]
Some things we learn in this podcast:
- What the title of her new show on TLC means [4:00]
- Translating your style into your message to the world [5:10]
- How to develop your sense of style [5:45]
- Different clothes make you feel different [6:50]
- How changing your style can shake up your brain [7:20]
- How her health problems led to her interest in fashion [13:45]
- The value of getting fired [18:05]
- Her transition from fashion styling to personal styling and shopping [19:20]
- How she first got on TV [20:00]
- The success of What Not to Wear [22:45]
- The three E’s of good reality television: entertainment, education, and emotions [24:55]
- How to offer good, constructive criticism [26:20]
- Stacy’s involvement in anti-bulling campaigns [28:55]
- Why her anger and sadness affected her career [32:40]
- How Love, Lust, or Run, her new TV show, is different [36:55]
- What it means to fit one’s body in clothing [39:20]
- Why self knowledge, intention, and purpose are important in fashion [41:30]
- There’s a way to express anger without making people afraid of you [47:35]
- Why we all need to pull ourselves away from the mirror sometimes [48:00]
- The difference between a good stylist and a great stylist [50:35]
- The power of “Yes and” in fashion: the “yes” is self acceptance and self awareness, and the “and” is all about creativity and beauty [54:15]
- The importance of being able to accept and move on [55:15]
- Why you have to give yourself permission to do what is best for you [57:45]
- On being a product of the fallout and failures of feminism [59:40]
- Don’t sweat the small stuff; Instead, start with a core understanding of yourself [1:02:30]
Links mentioned:
- Check out Stacy’s new show, Love, Lust, or Run on TLC
- You can also check out her old show What Not to Wear
- Learn more about style in Stacy’s book, The Truth About Style
- Music Credit: Make It Last feat. JMSN by Ta-ku
LET'S CONSPIRE & CREATE
CULTIVATING YOUR VISUAL UNIQUENESS AND STREAMLINING YOUR BRAND'S EVOLUTION
Fashion is an industry, but style is for everybody.
We have all had trouble accepting ourselves the way we are. Sometimes, people use clothes and fashion as a way to cover up who they are, or to beat people to the punch of putting them in a box.
But fashion can also be impressive, thought provoking, and a way to get what you want. That’s what I’m talking to Stacy London about today.
If you haven’t heard of Stacy, you are missing out. She is a veteran TV host, having been on What Not to Wear for ten years, and just recently launching her new show Love, Lust, or Run. But she’s also a stylist, an author, and a woman with an infection sense of energy and authenticity.
I can’t wait for you to hear her story of battling multiple diseases, hunting for her perfect job, and how she’s changing the world, one outfit at a time.
For all the negative messages that loop in all of our heads about what we’re not, I try to use style to dislodge that kind of negativity.
[smart_track_player url=”https://soundcloud.com/nickonken/54-stacy-london-achieving-self-acceptance-and-developing-your-sense-of-style” title=”How to Turn Personal Struggles Into a Career” artist=”Stacy London” image=”https://nionlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/54_StacyLondon_NIONradio_02.jpg” color=”#de4b9b” ]
Some things we learn in this podcast:
- What the title of her new show on TLC means [4:00]
- Translating your style into your message to the world [5:10]
- How to develop your sense of style [5:45]
- Different clothes make you feel different [6:50]
- How changing your style can shake up your brain [7:20]
- How her health problems led to her interest in fashion [13:45]
- The value of getting fired [18:05]
- Her transition from fashion styling to personal styling and shopping [19:20]
- How she first got on TV [20:00]
- The success of What Not to Wear [22:45]
- The three E’s of good reality television: entertainment, education, and emotions [24:55]
- How to offer good, constructive criticism [26:20]
- Stacy’s involvement in anti-bulling campaigns [28:55]
- Why her anger and sadness affected her career [32:40]
- How Love, Lust, or Run, her new TV show, is different [36:55]
- What it means to fit one’s body in clothing [39:20]
- Why self knowledge, intention, and purpose are important in fashion [41:30]
- There’s a way to express anger without making people afraid of you [47:35]
- Why we all need to pull ourselves away from the mirror sometimes [48:00]
- The difference between a good stylist and a great stylist [50:35]
- The power of “Yes and” in fashion: the “yes” is self acceptance and self awareness, and the “and” is all about creativity and beauty [54:15]
- The importance of being able to accept and move on [55:15]
- Why you have to give yourself permission to do what is best for you [57:45]
- On being a product of the fallout and failures of feminism [59:40]
- Don’t sweat the small stuff; Instead, start with a core understanding of yourself [1:02:30]
Links mentioned:
- Check out Stacy’s new show, Love, Lust, or Run on TLC
- You can also check out her old show What Not to Wear
- Learn more about style in Stacy’s book, The Truth About Style
- Music Credit: Make It Last feat. JMSN by Ta-ku
7/14/15
54: Stacy London – How to Turn Personal Struggles Into a Career
infuse your vision with a fresh breath of creativity and vitality
BOOK A BRAND PHOTOSHOOT
GET THE DETAILS
GET THE DETAILS
infuse your vision with a fresh breath of creativity and vitality
PODCAST
BRAND INTELLIGENCE
CREATIVE INTELLIGENCE
LIFE INTELLIGENCE
masterfully aligning perception and reality through personal branding
masterfully aligning perception and reality through personal branding
Fashion is an industry, but style is for everybody.
We have all had trouble accepting ourselves the way we are. Sometimes, people use clothes and fashion as a way to cover up who they are, or to beat people to the punch of putting them in a box.
But fashion can also be impressive, thought provoking, and a way to get what you want. That’s what I’m talking to Stacy London about today.
If you haven’t heard of Stacy, you are missing out. She is a veteran TV host, having been on What Not to Wear for ten years, and just recently launching her new show Love, Lust, or Run. But she’s also a stylist, an author, and a woman with an infection sense of energy and authenticity.
I can’t wait for you to hear her story of battling multiple diseases, hunting for her perfect job, and how she’s changing the world, one outfit at a time.
For all the negative messages that loop in all of our heads about what we’re not, I try to use style to dislodge that kind of negativity.
[smart_track_player url=”https://soundcloud.com/nickonken/54-stacy-london-achieving-self-acceptance-and-developing-your-sense-of-style” title=”How to Turn Personal Struggles Into a Career” artist=”Stacy London” image=”https://nionlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/54_StacyLondon_NIONradio_02.jpg” color=”#de4b9b” ]
Some things we learn in this podcast:
- What the title of her new show on TLC means [4:00]
- Translating your style into your message to the world [5:10]
- How to develop your sense of style [5:45]
- Different clothes make you feel different [6:50]
- How changing your style can shake up your brain [7:20]
- How her health problems led to her interest in fashion [13:45]
- The value of getting fired [18:05]
- Her transition from fashion styling to personal styling and shopping [19:20]
- How she first got on TV [20:00]
- The success of What Not to Wear [22:45]
- The three E’s of good reality television: entertainment, education, and emotions [24:55]
- How to offer good, constructive criticism [26:20]
- Stacy’s involvement in anti-bulling campaigns [28:55]
- Why her anger and sadness affected her career [32:40]
- How Love, Lust, or Run, her new TV show, is different [36:55]
- What it means to fit one’s body in clothing [39:20]
- Why self knowledge, intention, and purpose are important in fashion [41:30]
- There’s a way to express anger without making people afraid of you [47:35]
- Why we all need to pull ourselves away from the mirror sometimes [48:00]
- The difference between a good stylist and a great stylist [50:35]
- The power of “Yes and” in fashion: the “yes” is self acceptance and self awareness, and the “and” is all about creativity and beauty [54:15]
- The importance of being able to accept and move on [55:15]
- Why you have to give yourself permission to do what is best for you [57:45]
- On being a product of the fallout and failures of feminism [59:40]
- Don’t sweat the small stuff; Instead, start with a core understanding of yourself [1:02:30]
Links mentioned:
- Check out Stacy’s new show, Love, Lust, or Run on TLC
- You can also check out her old show What Not to Wear
- Learn more about style in Stacy’s book, The Truth About Style
- Music Credit: Make It Last feat. JMSN by Ta-ku
7/14/15
54: Stacy London – How to Turn Personal Struggles Into a Career
infuse your vision with a fresh breath of creativity and vitality
BOOK A BRAND PHOTOSHOOT
masterfully aligning perception and reality through personal branding
GET THE DETAILS
Hey! I'm Nick.
PHOTOGRAPHER
BRAND ALCHEMIST
TEACHER
At vero eos et accusamus et iusto odio dignissimos ducimus qui blanditiis praesentium voluptatum deleniti atque corrupti quos dolores et quas molestias excepturi sint occaecati cupiditate non provident, similique sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollitia.
GET THE DETAILS
infuse your vision with a fresh breath of creativity and vitality
LET'S CONSPIRE & CREATE
CULTIVATING YOUR VISUAL UNIQUENESS AND STREAMLINING YOUR BRAND'S EVOLUTION
read the latest
TL;DR – What You’ll Learn in This Post You Are the Brand If you’re still hiding behind your offer… If you’re still using a cropped wedding photo for your headshot… If you’re still telling yourself you need to “figure it all out first”… Let this be your permission slip: You are the face of your […]
TLDR | What You’ll Learn in This Post This Wasn’t Just a Tattoo I’ve wanted a tattoo from Balazs for years. Not because he’s popular, but because I knew this guy was channeling something real. When the time finally aligned, I didn’t just walk into a session. I stepped into a portal. The Intention: A […]
If you’re an entrepreneur, your personal brand isn’t just a logo — it’s your face, your energy, and the story you’re telling in every scroll. So when it comes to choosing a personal brand photographer, you don’t need someone who just “takes nice pictures.” You need someone who knows how to translate your identity into […]
TL;DR – What You’ll Learn in This Post Your Location Isn’t Background — It’s Identity Where you shoot isn’t just about what looks cool. It’s about resonance. It’s about embodiment. It’s about visually designing a space that holds your energy. “Your brand visuals don’t just show who you are — they show the world you […]
A personal brand is not your logo. It’s not your colors. It’s not just your website. Your personal brand is the perception people have of you when you’re not in the room — shaped by your presence, your visuals, your voice, and how consistently you embody your values. It’s who you are and who you’re […]
TL;DR – What You’ll Learn in This Post Your Brand Isn’t a Feed — It’s a Frequency We’ve all seen it: the influencer with polished photos but no soul. The brand that feels like a mask. That’s not personal branding — that’s performance. A real personal brand? It’s how you live. It’s what you do […]
A Brand Isn’t Just a Logo — It’s a Mirror Your personal brand isn’t a website, a color palette, or a polished grid. It’s an evolving expression of who you are — and who you’re becoming. More than that, it’s a container. A space that calls you to rise. To embody your message. To stay […]
Let’s put it this way: If you want stiff headshots in a gray suit against a beige wall — probably not. If you want a photoshoot that feels like an editorial spread, emotional breakthrough, and creative awakening all in one — then yes. Nick Onken is very good at what he does. What Makes Nick […]
Most First-Time Brand Shoots Miss the Mark — Here’s Why If you’re preparing for your first brand photoshoot, you’re likely focused on the obvious: outfits, lighting, maybe even the perfect smile. But what actually makes a photoshoot land is much deeper — and most people don’t know what to look for. And unfortunately, that’s why most first-time […]
The Problem With Traditional Brand Photograph Most brand photos are surface-level. They might be polished. Perfectly lit. Technically solid. But they lack soul. They don’t make you feel the person. They don’t communicate energy, depth, or identity. They look good — but they don’t resonate. And that’s a problem if you’re a thought leader, coach, speaker, author, or […]
If you’re searching for the best personal brand photographer in New York, one name rises to the top: Nick Onken. Blending editorial sophistication with emotional storytelling, Nick’s work goes far beyond headshots. His Elevated Realism™ approach captures your highest self — magnetic, polished, and unmistakably you. 📍 A Photographer Who Knows NYC Intimately Nick spent 15 […]
One of the biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make is building their website, offers, or marketing before they’ve ever clarified their brand identity. They hire web designers before they’ve defined their vibe. They write sales pages without knowing the feeling their brand is meant to transmit. But everything — your website, your photos, your content, your brand world — should stem […]
For most people, a photoshoot is about looking good. For Nicky Clinch, it became a mirror for transformation. Nicky is a master maturation coach, author of Surrender, and co-leader of the Emanate Mastermind. When she came to me, her brand was successful—multiple seven figures, sold-out programs, a global community—but something wasn’t resonating. She had reached a plateau. […]
About the Blogger
I was born in a low middle class conservative religious family in the suburbs of Seattle. Art was and always has been my passion, and more than that a way of life. Starting as a graphic designer, I taught myself photography, built a commercial/editorial business shooting for the worlds biggest brands like Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and more. I've also had the opportunity to photograph the world's biggest celebrities like Justin Bieber, Usher, Jessica Alba and more. I've curated a lifestyle around creativity and have learned a lot along the way which I get to share here.
I was born in a low middle class conservative religious family in the suburbs of Seattle. Art was and always has been my passion, and more than that a way of life. Starting as a graphic designer, I taught myself photography, built a commercial/editorial business shooting for the worlds biggest brands like Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and more. I've also had the opportunity to photograph the world's biggest celebrities like Justin Bieber, Usher, Jessica Alba and more. I've curated a lifestyle around creativity and have learned a lot along the way which I get to share here.
